No one thinks about divorce when getting married but the
reality is that 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the US end up in divorce. (link: http://www.apa.org/topics/divorce/) When faced with the irreconcilable breakdown
of a marriage, there are things to consider before deciding how you want to
proceed in your divorce. You may want to
consider the financial and emotional aspects of a divorce legal battle. In
this war, husband and wife fight over each and every issue including the
division of assets, child custody, parenting time, child support;
alimony/spousal support and any other issue that
may arise. Generally, this is the most costly and
emotionally draining option to consider and can have a detrimental effect on
all members of the family. If you do
force a court to make decisions in your divorce litigation, it is very possible
that you and your spouse will be very unhappy with the outcome. The reason for this is that the Judge does
not know as much as you do about your family and will be unable to spend the
time to understand what would be best for your family. The good news is that you and your spouse
can work together with a divorce mediator and resolve the issues without rolling
the dice and forcing a court to make the decisions. 
A divorce does not have to be a fight and can be an amicable
process. In mediation, couples can work together with a divorce mediator and agree
to all issues including the division of assets, child custody, parenting time,
child support; alimony/spousal support and any other issue that may arise. If you are looking to hire a divorce mediator
in Bergen County NJ, contact Kathy Karas-Pasciucco at FYKGLAW.COM for a free
consultation.
Instead of proceeding through the court system and waiting
for a court to make a ruling, divorce mediation can be a safe and impartial
environment for divorcing couples to make important decisions about the future
of their family. The parties may
negotiate their issues with the assistance of an impartial divorce mediator in
Bergen County, New Jersey.
Divorce mediation is generally less antagonistic and less
expensive than conventional divorce.
Divorce mediation tends to be bring the parties together for the best
interest of the family. Divorce mediation provides both parties with
control over the results and addresses the needs of the family. Divorce Mediation allows for a more peaceful
process during a very different time in life.
Divorce mediation is a voluntary process that either party
or the divorce mediator can end at any time. To learn more about divorce mediation in
Bergen County, NJ call Kathy Karas-Pasciucco for a free consultation at 201-791-4400.
